“A good partnership is the place where we find as much security as we
seek and as much freedom as we need. “

Henriette Hanke

It sounds perfect, doesn’t it? But the question is, how can we achieve this? Can we do anything to create a “good partnership” or does it just automatically start when we find the “right” partner? And what about love? I’ll come back to that at the end of this page. Let’s begin with the practical part.

The initial situation: You’re in a partnership, married or unmarried, and things just cannot go on the way they are. Maybe you keep coming back to the same issues that you’ve been discussing for years and still haven’t found a solution for them. Or maybe you’ve been faced with a new situation which is jeopardising your partnership. 

The burning question is: Could I or we have done something differently? Is it about guilt? Or whether it’s fair or unfair?

What is it all really about?

Couple’s coaching offers the opportunity to discover the real issue behind the actions and the arguments. What it’s all really about. 

Sometimes we can better understand ourselves through couple’s coaching, because conflicts in a partnership always involve something very personal. It’s not only about the intermediate issues, it’s also about you yourself. Do you know exactly what you want and need? Have you communicated that? Have you set boundaries? Have you asked for enough space?

So how does couple’s coaching help with this? The third party in the discussion serves as a catalyst, often giving rise to practical new solutions to old issues, and sometimes allowing partners to see themselves differently and to find themselves back on the same wavelength.

If you’re looking for a new start or simply to explore the potential possibilities within your partnership, then couple’s coaching is a great idea. Couple’s coaching can also be helpful when combined with sex coaching to rekindle the passion in your relationship.

And now let’s come back to love. It grows from the foundations of a solid partnership where both partners freely give one another what they need.

Love is the child of freedom.

French saying